BB朱自己預備沖涼涼

時間真快，BB朱話咁快16個月啦!
佢開始學嘢好快，同埋佢好跟routine，就好似夜晚食完飯同佢玩陣，跟住佢自己自動自覺攞張chair去厠所, 然後又知道條抺身毛巾係邊，跟住攞堆去厠所，好攪笑！

"Child of Divorce"

 "Divorce won't hurt the children if you do it right. Not surprisingly, the proponents of this theory are parents who have divorced. I have yet to meet or hear of a child of divorce who has bought into it - we know better. There is not a "right way" to do divorce so that no one gets hurt. It may be a nice idea, but the reality simply does not work that way. Our actions have consequences, and one of the consequences of divorce is the battered hearts of children whose homes are broken when marriage vows are abandoned."

"Jeff found himself in a conversation with a recently divorced coworker.
He asked her, "How are your kids doing?"
"Oh, they're doing great," she assured him. "I sat down with each one of them, talked to them about the divorce and asked them how they were feeling. They are all great kids and handling it really well."
"Baloney," Jeff said. "Your kids are lying to you. They're just telling you what you want to hear."
Jeff's blunt reply shocked, even angered, his co-worker.   But later she sought him out and thanked him. After their last conversation, she confronted her children again and found that Jeff was right."

"Part of our struggle with trust stems from the broken trust with our parents. The people who were supposed to model and teach us concepts like trustworthiness, honesty and faithfulness are instead the people who have let us down the most, lied to us most consistently and failed to be there when we most needed them. While their actions were often unintentional, we had front-row seats to observe their failures, and it left many of us with doubts about who can be trusted."

BB朱又進步多步

BB朱以家識自己企係到同bye bye, 好攪笑^O^
(個video黑咗啲，請見諒）

天父

近排睇緊本書叫做"Child of Divorce Child of God",令我諗返起“天父”。

聖經教導我哋，神係我哋嘅天父，而弟兄姊妹會係祈禱當中稱神係天父，或者阿爸父，但天父同阿爸父呢兩個稱呼，唔知點解對我嚟講個感覺好遠，我用唔到嚟稱呼神，因為我成日覺得我已經有爸爸啦，做咩要叫神做爸爸喎，硬係叫唔出。

而我覺得神係我最好最好嘅朋友，可以無所不談，同埋我好信得過佢同愛佢，只係爸爸個稱呼始終apply唔到係神身上，所以我無為以有咩問題。

但係過去呢三年，神開始俾我知道問題所在，點解我硬係稱呼唔到神為天父，呢三年神努力拔起埋藏咗我心底裡面嘅一條刺，然後作出醫治，包紮，讓我完全痊癒。

神讓我知道我其實好嬲爸爸（嬲佢以前點樣傷害媽咪），但另一邊廂我知爸爸好錫我同照顧我，我亦都好愛爸爸，所以好mixed feelings, 但爸爸嘅好，令我自自然然將我對佢嘅嬲怒埋藏咗係我心底好底嘅地方，連我自己都唔記得, 無再挖返出嚟。

神緊係唔想我帶著呢個傷口成世，雖然俾神挖返哂啲嘢出嚟好痛，但係以家望返轉頭係好感恩，神同我返去嗰個傷痛地方，重新開始，而家更加可以freely稱呼神為”天父“或”阿爸父“，令我同神更親近多一步。

表兄弟姊妹聚首一堂

好耐無試過一班係香港由細玩到大嘅表兄弟姊妹一齊約出嚟食飯（尚欠Galex表哥同欣欣表姐），真係好開心呀!  大家都改變咗好多，講下以前講下近況 ，雖然好耐無見，但係其實大家個心仍然好近。

日清合味道杯飯

唔知好唔好食呢？你哋有無興趣試下呢？不防去睇下日清合味道嘅web site啦!

幫手吸塵

假陰

細妹近排買咗個假髮（只有前面嘅陰），我哋個個都有試帶，笑到碌哂地 XD.
個個都唔好睇，只有妹妹帶得之好睇，成個日本娃娃咁，Kawaii呢!

兩個極端（朱先生似唔似變態佬，哈哈哈XD）

反思ing

近排聽到好多人嘅分享同故事，令我個腦充塞著好多要反思嘅嘢，腦袋仍然整理當中, 呢啲分享同故事唔知點解燃點咗我心裡團火，雖然唔知係咩，但係令我好好問神呢團火究竟係咩嚟。

有一樣嘢令我好肯定嘅係，真係要好好為我哋班年青人同下一代好好祈禱，求神俾智慧佢哋based on 神嘅真理去分別真與假，是與非。及有智慧地運用Critical Thinking 去接收任何資訊。

言語始終表達唔到我內心個感受， 都係back to 反思ing 同整理ing先......

朱先生生日快樂

剛剛過去嘅星期六係朱先生生日，所以放低仔仔俾奶奶照顧，去過二人世界。

我plan好哂所有節目, 朱先生超級relax同Enjoy. ^^

一早同仔仔一齊食早餐（仔仔食咗超級勁多嘢）
跟住陪朱先生剪髮
放低仔仔係奶奶到
原本想睇Toy Story 3，但係去到開咗場，所以我哋改去漁人碼頭逛逛，可以enjoy個sunshine之餘，傾下計，原來我哋真係好耐無真真正正傾過計，因為無咁嘅時間，雖然成日對住，但係個focus 好自然去咗仔仔到，我諗我哋間唔中都需要返啲二人世界，plan plan睇下有無可能先。

跟住送份大禮俾朱先生，就係massage package, 因為佢上次搬電視整親條腰，成日覺得痛痛地，我成日叫佢做massage，但係佢唔捨得用錢係massage到（其實可以claim返7成）所以我就送呢個大禮俾佢好好enjoy啦!  係佢生日個日我已經Book咗appointment俾佢enjoy一番，massage完之後，朱先生不斷同我講“正”，哈哈哈！

然後晚餐去咗食義大利私房菜Cucina Toscana, 不錯，值得一試，尢其是個牛排同羊架，超juicy同滑。

BTW，星期五小組gathering，我第一次親自整咗個chocolate mousse brownie birthday cake俾朱先生，雖然 個蛋糕個樣好樣衰，但係食落去唔錯架^^，最攪笑係Uncle Bill 同Winnie係廚房努力撩埋stick係個pan到嘅cake食，多謝佢哋，令我再有信心下次整好啲，哈哈！^O^